As you might have already read, one of the prerequisites to me getting an orgasm is meeting my weight and body fat loss targets.
Currently, there is a minimum wait of ten days between orgasms for me. The last 'due date' was 26th Jan. The last time I came was 16th Jan. That's the longest I think I have ever gone without an orgasm - 13 days and counting!
Weigh in is always on a Monday and as of last Monday I hadn't made my targets. This was annoying, not because I didn't get my orgasm, but because on Friday I had made the targets. Then, following a night out on Saturday, it all went wrong and the targets were missed.
So, no orgasm for me. She has hinted that I might get lucky this weekend. We shall see. I think I would prefer not to; it almost seems like cheating. I would prefer to wait until the next weigh in on Monday (which I am quietly confidant about).
And I see my blog has a follower! Welcome, Grey Owl!
Saturday, 29 January 2011
Friday, 28 January 2011
Prince Alberts
There seems an increase in chat & discussion about Prince Albert piercings in the MC community at the moment.
Or maybe it's just me.
I used to be very much in the "That's disgusting" camp on this. I was also in the "Christ, that looks like it hurt" camp.
These days, however, I'm more curious than anything. I mean, if the good wife turned round to me and said "Would you have a PA?" I'm not sure my answer would be an unequivocal "No." My reservations would be more of a practical nature.
Specifically, about peeing. I'm not sure on this, but it seems to me that peeing whilst standing with a PA in place would be ... potentially messy, in the same way peeing with a chastity device can be.
One of the agreements I have with my keyholding wife is that I can go solo without the male chastity device (if she is with me it is less of an issue) on occassions where it would be impractical to wear it. Typically, this is when I am on holiday with male friends. These events normally involve a lot of beer which leads to a lot of peeing. Not a problem down the pub but we are usually at sports events or music festivals where peeing standing up is the order of the day. Additionally, in these situations shared accomodation and toilet facilities both make wearing a MC device ... difficult and unnecessary (Indulging in a bit of self pleasuring when your best friend is sleeping in the next bed? No.).
So, at the moment the only reason for NOT getting a PA is about peeing whilst standing during two long weekends eadch year.
But what about the reasons for going ahead and getting a PA?
The first is my rapidly expanding appetite for kink.
The second is the increase in 'chastity security'. When I first started wearing a MC device I managed to extricate myself from and it and .. well, you can guess the rest.
The third is partly aesthetical and partly practical - can I wear something less encumbering that a CB6000 or Watchful Mistress? Would this allow me to stay in a chastity device while I was at the gym or pool etc. I dont know the answer to this and, to be honest, if the answer to this question was 'yes' then I would be a long way to going for it.
So, I'm well out of the "That's disgusting" camp on this one.
However, I can't quite find my way out of the "Christ, that looks like it hurt" camp.
Or maybe it's just me.
I used to be very much in the "That's disgusting" camp on this. I was also in the "Christ, that looks like it hurt" camp.
These days, however, I'm more curious than anything. I mean, if the good wife turned round to me and said "Would you have a PA?" I'm not sure my answer would be an unequivocal "No." My reservations would be more of a practical nature.
Specifically, about peeing. I'm not sure on this, but it seems to me that peeing whilst standing with a PA in place would be ... potentially messy, in the same way peeing with a chastity device can be.
One of the agreements I have with my keyholding wife is that I can go solo without the male chastity device (if she is with me it is less of an issue) on occassions where it would be impractical to wear it. Typically, this is when I am on holiday with male friends. These events normally involve a lot of beer which leads to a lot of peeing. Not a problem down the pub but we are usually at sports events or music festivals where peeing standing up is the order of the day. Additionally, in these situations shared accomodation and toilet facilities both make wearing a MC device ... difficult and unnecessary (Indulging in a bit of self pleasuring when your best friend is sleeping in the next bed? No.).
So, at the moment the only reason for NOT getting a PA is about peeing whilst standing during two long weekends eadch year.
But what about the reasons for going ahead and getting a PA?
The first is my rapidly expanding appetite for kink.
The second is the increase in 'chastity security'. When I first started wearing a MC device I managed to extricate myself from and it and .. well, you can guess the rest.
The third is partly aesthetical and partly practical - can I wear something less encumbering that a CB6000 or Watchful Mistress? Would this allow me to stay in a chastity device while I was at the gym or pool etc. I dont know the answer to this and, to be honest, if the answer to this question was 'yes' then I would be a long way to going for it.
So, I'm well out of the "That's disgusting" camp on this one.
However, I can't quite find my way out of the "Christ, that looks like it hurt" camp.
Monday, 24 January 2011
Chasity as a motivational tool
One of the things I've noticed on the various blogs and forums that are linked to Male Chastity is the need (or otherwise) for a contract between keyholder and the person in the chastity device (The locked? Lockee?).
Some folks have tried it and ditched it as being cumbersome. Others, expecially over at the Chastity Mansion, are happy to use them.
Personally, I quite like having a contract between me and my keyholder, the wife, and one of the points in the contract is regarding weight loss. I am, without a shadow of a doubt, carrying too much excess baggage. This is particularly galling as I used to be quite fit and play a fair amount of sports before picking up a back injury that has forced a sedentary lifestyle over the last few years. However, the injury was sorted out about a year ago and I have struggled to get fit again. Most of it is down to lack of self discipline and unwillingness to knuckle down to the task at hand.
Since the beginning of January however, I have been working to a set of weekly targets (weight & body fat loss) that are set in the contract. Failure to achieve these may result in extensions of my time between orgasms - currently set to ten days as a minimum. The results, so far, are encouraging!
Unfortunately, I missed the weight loss target this week, so I think my next orgasm is going to be put back a bit.
Some folks have tried it and ditched it as being cumbersome. Others, expecially over at the Chastity Mansion, are happy to use them.
Personally, I quite like having a contract between me and my keyholder, the wife, and one of the points in the contract is regarding weight loss. I am, without a shadow of a doubt, carrying too much excess baggage. This is particularly galling as I used to be quite fit and play a fair amount of sports before picking up a back injury that has forced a sedentary lifestyle over the last few years. However, the injury was sorted out about a year ago and I have struggled to get fit again. Most of it is down to lack of self discipline and unwillingness to knuckle down to the task at hand.
Since the beginning of January however, I have been working to a set of weekly targets (weight & body fat loss) that are set in the contract. Failure to achieve these may result in extensions of my time between orgasms - currently set to ten days as a minimum. The results, so far, are encouraging!
Unfortunately, I missed the weight loss target this week, so I think my next orgasm is going to be put back a bit.
Friday, 21 January 2011
Introductions
Hi all,
As my first blog (on this subject or any other), I guess some introductions and maybe a bit of an explanation are in order!
So, I drifted into male chastity during the summer of 2010. It started with me trawling the web and finding Sarah Jameson's most excellent website malechastityblog.com. I found the male chastity thing a serious turn on (which parts of it and why will be covered in a later blog).
Anyway, I raised the subject with my wife, showing her a CB6000 and some of the info from the web. Frankly, she wasn't that interested and then that was it.
About a month later the subject came up again and she asked after the CB6000 and if I was going to go ahead and buy it. I did.
I've been wearing it pretty much ever since, apart from a month or so in late 2010 when events beyond ourr control were doing their best to screw things up.
Just before Christmas the subject of presents came up. We talked around it and one of the options that came up was a metal chastity device. I'm not sure who brought it up. So, an order was placed and we are awaiting delivery - any day now, I think.
More to follow....
As my first blog (on this subject or any other), I guess some introductions and maybe a bit of an explanation are in order!
So, I drifted into male chastity during the summer of 2010. It started with me trawling the web and finding Sarah Jameson's most excellent website malechastityblog.com. I found the male chastity thing a serious turn on (which parts of it and why will be covered in a later blog).
Anyway, I raised the subject with my wife, showing her a CB6000 and some of the info from the web. Frankly, she wasn't that interested and then that was it.
About a month later the subject came up again and she asked after the CB6000 and if I was going to go ahead and buy it. I did.
I've been wearing it pretty much ever since, apart from a month or so in late 2010 when events beyond ourr control were doing their best to screw things up.
Just before Christmas the subject of presents came up. We talked around it and one of the options that came up was a metal chastity device. I'm not sure who brought it up. So, an order was placed and we are awaiting delivery - any day now, I think.
More to follow....
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