There have been a few changes recently in the b2ounce house.
Around Christmas time I put together a chastity contract for me and wife. This hasn't really worked. I think it might have been too restrictive (I know this sounds odd in a male chastity context!).
Things changed this weekend. The wife has got past a bunch of serious deadlines at work and nearly sorted some family matters that have brought down the stress levels. She asked me when my next orgasm was due (we operate on a ten day cycle at the moment) and I said that I wanted her to have complete control of them and to excercise that control. In effect, we have decided that she can make the decision on as and when (and how) I get to cum. The rest of the contract seems to have fallen by the wayside.
One of the things that I've been encouraging her to do is not to let me come and not to feel bad about it. Tease and denial is one thing she is OK with, but me not coming when we have penetrative sex has been more of a challenge. On Sunday night we made love. In fact we fucked like bunnies. But she wouldn't let me come.
As a result I felt great on Monday!
And I haven't had an orgasm for 11 or 12 days.
I hear you! During my last locked cycle we had sex twice where I was not allowed to orgasm...wow,it was SO incredible. That is something my wife/keyholder is just starting to get comfortable with, and it is fun!
ReplyDeleteI know what you mean, I've managed a cpule of times to make love without coming (working towards doing that almost every time) and I feel GREAT the day after also. I wonder why is that? Even before, the idea was, in some way, HOT!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to you!