Well, it's been a while since I last posted.
So, after quite a break, I'm back in the cage. The return to being caged again was driven by me after the best part of two weeks away from the wife. For the first part of the trip I was on a boys holiday (beer & rugby) then on business.
I should say that the cage had been left off for some time prior to this trip. I couldn't tell you exactly why. I had lost a bit of interest and the wife didn't seem terribly bothered about getting me back in the cage or indulging in anything like the Tease & Denial stuff we were previously enjoying. That said, she injured her back quite badly about a month ago and it's one of those injuries that is going to take a while to clear up. This certainly put the brakes on any kind of penetrative sex,.
Now, we seem to be back on track with me being caged during the day and a bit of edging in the shower at the start of the day. However, that's about it as we are both very busy and her back is still not right.
Monday 12 December 2011
Tuesday 26 April 2011
Shag, Marry, Kill
Well, it's been a while since the last post.
The holiday was great, by the way - we met up with some old friends and made some new ones. I was also introduced to a new game called Shag, Marry, Kill. No, this nothig to with some sort of homicidal swingers club, just a fun game to play after a few drinks. Basically, you pick three individuals for somebody and they have to choose which one to shag, which one to marry and which one to kill. This gets interesting when you pick three very desirable candidates for your drinking buddy to choose from.
As for the male chastity, things have come off the boil for a bit. Nothing unusual in that, just life meandering along in it's own way. You can't live your kinks 24/7, as much as you'd want to. The wife obliged me by letting me come during our morning tease this weekend. My first orgasm for quite some time. I would have liked to have had it duirng intercourse, but she had her monthly visitor and really didn't fancy it.
More to follow....
The holiday was great, by the way - we met up with some old friends and made some new ones. I was also introduced to a new game called Shag, Marry, Kill. No, this nothig to with some sort of homicidal swingers club, just a fun game to play after a few drinks. Basically, you pick three individuals for somebody and they have to choose which one to shag, which one to marry and which one to kill. This gets interesting when you pick three very desirable candidates for your drinking buddy to choose from.
As for the male chastity, things have come off the boil for a bit. Nothing unusual in that, just life meandering along in it's own way. You can't live your kinks 24/7, as much as you'd want to. The wife obliged me by letting me come during our morning tease this weekend. My first orgasm for quite some time. I would have liked to have had it duirng intercourse, but she had her monthly visitor and really didn't fancy it.
More to follow....
Wednesday 23 March 2011
a date has been set
Morning all. We're on holiday at the moment so this is going to be a short post.
Following on from my last blog, the good lady wife has set a date for my next orgasm: Easter weekend, although she did say Christmas and laughed. Seeing as I'm already on a personal best of two weeks this sets quite a challenge. At the moment it's not a problem. I'd like to see if she can make me beg and really mean it.
In the meantime, I can expect lots of teasing, sex with no orgasm for me and she has said she'll milk.
Frankly, I cannot wait.
Following on from my last blog, the good lady wife has set a date for my next orgasm: Easter weekend, although she did say Christmas and laughed. Seeing as I'm already on a personal best of two weeks this sets quite a challenge. At the moment it's not a problem. I'd like to see if she can make me beg and really mean it.
In the meantime, I can expect lots of teasing, sex with no orgasm for me and she has said she'll milk.
Frankly, I cannot wait.
Tuesday 22 March 2011
Changes in Denial Period
There have been a few changes recently in the b2ounce house.
Around Christmas time I put together a chastity contract for me and wife. This hasn't really worked. I think it might have been too restrictive (I know this sounds odd in a male chastity context!).
Things changed this weekend. The wife has got past a bunch of serious deadlines at work and nearly sorted some family matters that have brought down the stress levels. She asked me when my next orgasm was due (we operate on a ten day cycle at the moment) and I said that I wanted her to have complete control of them and to excercise that control. In effect, we have decided that she can make the decision on as and when (and how) I get to cum. The rest of the contract seems to have fallen by the wayside.
One of the things that I've been encouraging her to do is not to let me come and not to feel bad about it. Tease and denial is one thing she is OK with, but me not coming when we have penetrative sex has been more of a challenge. On Sunday night we made love. In fact we fucked like bunnies. But she wouldn't let me come.
As a result I felt great on Monday!
And I haven't had an orgasm for 11 or 12 days.
Around Christmas time I put together a chastity contract for me and wife. This hasn't really worked. I think it might have been too restrictive (I know this sounds odd in a male chastity context!).
Things changed this weekend. The wife has got past a bunch of serious deadlines at work and nearly sorted some family matters that have brought down the stress levels. She asked me when my next orgasm was due (we operate on a ten day cycle at the moment) and I said that I wanted her to have complete control of them and to excercise that control. In effect, we have decided that she can make the decision on as and when (and how) I get to cum. The rest of the contract seems to have fallen by the wayside.
One of the things that I've been encouraging her to do is not to let me come and not to feel bad about it. Tease and denial is one thing she is OK with, but me not coming when we have penetrative sex has been more of a challenge. On Sunday night we made love. In fact we fucked like bunnies. But she wouldn't let me come.
As a result I felt great on Monday!
And I haven't had an orgasm for 11 or 12 days.
Sunday 20 March 2011
Sunday 6 February 2011
A near miss in the gym and the Watchful Mistress is here...
As part of my job I have to spend time away from home. It's not normally too bad - a couple of nights every couple of weeks. Sometimes I can combine it with a visit to friends or family. If things really work out I can bring the wife.
When I am away by myself I will normally stay locked for the enitre trip except when I am in the gym. In these situations I leave home with a plastic tag (if travelling by air) or coded padlock locking my CB6000S. When I need to get out of the CB I either break the tag or contact the wife for the code. Once I am done in the gym I lock myself back in the CB using another coded padlock (for which I do not know the code) or another plastic tag, depending what is appropriate.
I was away for one night last week and had gone to a gym near my stopover for the night. As usual, I contacted the wife for the code, unlocked myself and completed my session. I was at my locker, fishing out the cage portion of the CB when I dropped it. The impact with the tiled floor split the join and the unit fell into two neat halves! Not good. Quickly, I retrieved the unit and left the gym, hoping I hadn't been spotted. I went to a nearby shop for some superglue and reassembled the unit.
It went back on in the morning. I struggled with the urge to indulge myself all night and when I woke up. Surely, one little orgasm wouldn't hurt? I must confess, I did 'edge' myself a couple of times whilst perusing the porn on my iPad.
Later in the day my caged willy began to itch. It wasn't enough to be a problem but it was enough to be a distraction. I began to wonder if I wasn't having some sort of reaction to the superglue. Surely, though, the glue had dried by then and I've got superglue on my skin before now and not had any reaction to it.
Anyway, this shouldn't be a problem going forwards as the Watchful Mistress arrived on Saturday. With much delight I put it on and then had to remove it an hour later as I was in excuciating pain. Somehow, it had twisted and was pulling the skin under my ball sack which was looking very red and very angry! Thank God the wife was around to let me out!
I am now back in the WM. It seems OK this time - I have applied lots of lube!
I must say, I am really pleased with the look of the WM and hope it works out OK.
Something else that I also find out is terribly erotic is that while my chastity device has been upgraded to something nice, shiny and hard, the wife has started wearing increasingly sexy underwear. The idea that she is wearing hot, sexy underwear whilst my sexual gratification is being denied by her is getting me very horny indeed!
When I am away by myself I will normally stay locked for the enitre trip except when I am in the gym. In these situations I leave home with a plastic tag (if travelling by air) or coded padlock locking my CB6000S. When I need to get out of the CB I either break the tag or contact the wife for the code. Once I am done in the gym I lock myself back in the CB using another coded padlock (for which I do not know the code) or another plastic tag, depending what is appropriate.
I was away for one night last week and had gone to a gym near my stopover for the night. As usual, I contacted the wife for the code, unlocked myself and completed my session. I was at my locker, fishing out the cage portion of the CB when I dropped it. The impact with the tiled floor split the join and the unit fell into two neat halves! Not good. Quickly, I retrieved the unit and left the gym, hoping I hadn't been spotted. I went to a nearby shop for some superglue and reassembled the unit.
It went back on in the morning. I struggled with the urge to indulge myself all night and when I woke up. Surely, one little orgasm wouldn't hurt? I must confess, I did 'edge' myself a couple of times whilst perusing the porn on my iPad.
Later in the day my caged willy began to itch. It wasn't enough to be a problem but it was enough to be a distraction. I began to wonder if I wasn't having some sort of reaction to the superglue. Surely, though, the glue had dried by then and I've got superglue on my skin before now and not had any reaction to it.
Anyway, this shouldn't be a problem going forwards as the Watchful Mistress arrived on Saturday. With much delight I put it on and then had to remove it an hour later as I was in excuciating pain. Somehow, it had twisted and was pulling the skin under my ball sack which was looking very red and very angry! Thank God the wife was around to let me out!
I am now back in the WM. It seems OK this time - I have applied lots of lube!
I must say, I am really pleased with the look of the WM and hope it works out OK.
Something else that I also find out is terribly erotic is that while my chastity device has been upgraded to something nice, shiny and hard, the wife has started wearing increasingly sexy underwear. The idea that she is wearing hot, sexy underwear whilst my sexual gratification is being denied by her is getting me very horny indeed!
Saturday 29 January 2011
More delays
As you might have already read, one of the prerequisites to me getting an orgasm is meeting my weight and body fat loss targets.
Currently, there is a minimum wait of ten days between orgasms for me. The last 'due date' was 26th Jan. The last time I came was 16th Jan. That's the longest I think I have ever gone without an orgasm - 13 days and counting!
Weigh in is always on a Monday and as of last Monday I hadn't made my targets. This was annoying, not because I didn't get my orgasm, but because on Friday I had made the targets. Then, following a night out on Saturday, it all went wrong and the targets were missed.
So, no orgasm for me. She has hinted that I might get lucky this weekend. We shall see. I think I would prefer not to; it almost seems like cheating. I would prefer to wait until the next weigh in on Monday (which I am quietly confidant about).
And I see my blog has a follower! Welcome, Grey Owl!
Currently, there is a minimum wait of ten days between orgasms for me. The last 'due date' was 26th Jan. The last time I came was 16th Jan. That's the longest I think I have ever gone without an orgasm - 13 days and counting!
Weigh in is always on a Monday and as of last Monday I hadn't made my targets. This was annoying, not because I didn't get my orgasm, but because on Friday I had made the targets. Then, following a night out on Saturday, it all went wrong and the targets were missed.
So, no orgasm for me. She has hinted that I might get lucky this weekend. We shall see. I think I would prefer not to; it almost seems like cheating. I would prefer to wait until the next weigh in on Monday (which I am quietly confidant about).
And I see my blog has a follower! Welcome, Grey Owl!
Friday 28 January 2011
Prince Alberts
There seems an increase in chat & discussion about Prince Albert piercings in the MC community at the moment.
Or maybe it's just me.
I used to be very much in the "That's disgusting" camp on this. I was also in the "Christ, that looks like it hurt" camp.
These days, however, I'm more curious than anything. I mean, if the good wife turned round to me and said "Would you have a PA?" I'm not sure my answer would be an unequivocal "No." My reservations would be more of a practical nature.
Specifically, about peeing. I'm not sure on this, but it seems to me that peeing whilst standing with a PA in place would be ... potentially messy, in the same way peeing with a chastity device can be.
One of the agreements I have with my keyholding wife is that I can go solo without the male chastity device (if she is with me it is less of an issue) on occassions where it would be impractical to wear it. Typically, this is when I am on holiday with male friends. These events normally involve a lot of beer which leads to a lot of peeing. Not a problem down the pub but we are usually at sports events or music festivals where peeing standing up is the order of the day. Additionally, in these situations shared accomodation and toilet facilities both make wearing a MC device ... difficult and unnecessary (Indulging in a bit of self pleasuring when your best friend is sleeping in the next bed? No.).
So, at the moment the only reason for NOT getting a PA is about peeing whilst standing during two long weekends eadch year.
But what about the reasons for going ahead and getting a PA?
The first is my rapidly expanding appetite for kink.
The second is the increase in 'chastity security'. When I first started wearing a MC device I managed to extricate myself from and it and .. well, you can guess the rest.
The third is partly aesthetical and partly practical - can I wear something less encumbering that a CB6000 or Watchful Mistress? Would this allow me to stay in a chastity device while I was at the gym or pool etc. I dont know the answer to this and, to be honest, if the answer to this question was 'yes' then I would be a long way to going for it.
So, I'm well out of the "That's disgusting" camp on this one.
However, I can't quite find my way out of the "Christ, that looks like it hurt" camp.
Or maybe it's just me.
I used to be very much in the "That's disgusting" camp on this. I was also in the "Christ, that looks like it hurt" camp.
These days, however, I'm more curious than anything. I mean, if the good wife turned round to me and said "Would you have a PA?" I'm not sure my answer would be an unequivocal "No." My reservations would be more of a practical nature.
Specifically, about peeing. I'm not sure on this, but it seems to me that peeing whilst standing with a PA in place would be ... potentially messy, in the same way peeing with a chastity device can be.
One of the agreements I have with my keyholding wife is that I can go solo without the male chastity device (if she is with me it is less of an issue) on occassions where it would be impractical to wear it. Typically, this is when I am on holiday with male friends. These events normally involve a lot of beer which leads to a lot of peeing. Not a problem down the pub but we are usually at sports events or music festivals where peeing standing up is the order of the day. Additionally, in these situations shared accomodation and toilet facilities both make wearing a MC device ... difficult and unnecessary (Indulging in a bit of self pleasuring when your best friend is sleeping in the next bed? No.).
So, at the moment the only reason for NOT getting a PA is about peeing whilst standing during two long weekends eadch year.
But what about the reasons for going ahead and getting a PA?
The first is my rapidly expanding appetite for kink.
The second is the increase in 'chastity security'. When I first started wearing a MC device I managed to extricate myself from and it and .. well, you can guess the rest.
The third is partly aesthetical and partly practical - can I wear something less encumbering that a CB6000 or Watchful Mistress? Would this allow me to stay in a chastity device while I was at the gym or pool etc. I dont know the answer to this and, to be honest, if the answer to this question was 'yes' then I would be a long way to going for it.
So, I'm well out of the "That's disgusting" camp on this one.
However, I can't quite find my way out of the "Christ, that looks like it hurt" camp.
Monday 24 January 2011
Chasity as a motivational tool
One of the things I've noticed on the various blogs and forums that are linked to Male Chastity is the need (or otherwise) for a contract between keyholder and the person in the chastity device (The locked? Lockee?).
Some folks have tried it and ditched it as being cumbersome. Others, expecially over at the Chastity Mansion, are happy to use them.
Personally, I quite like having a contract between me and my keyholder, the wife, and one of the points in the contract is regarding weight loss. I am, without a shadow of a doubt, carrying too much excess baggage. This is particularly galling as I used to be quite fit and play a fair amount of sports before picking up a back injury that has forced a sedentary lifestyle over the last few years. However, the injury was sorted out about a year ago and I have struggled to get fit again. Most of it is down to lack of self discipline and unwillingness to knuckle down to the task at hand.
Since the beginning of January however, I have been working to a set of weekly targets (weight & body fat loss) that are set in the contract. Failure to achieve these may result in extensions of my time between orgasms - currently set to ten days as a minimum. The results, so far, are encouraging!
Unfortunately, I missed the weight loss target this week, so I think my next orgasm is going to be put back a bit.
Some folks have tried it and ditched it as being cumbersome. Others, expecially over at the Chastity Mansion, are happy to use them.
Personally, I quite like having a contract between me and my keyholder, the wife, and one of the points in the contract is regarding weight loss. I am, without a shadow of a doubt, carrying too much excess baggage. This is particularly galling as I used to be quite fit and play a fair amount of sports before picking up a back injury that has forced a sedentary lifestyle over the last few years. However, the injury was sorted out about a year ago and I have struggled to get fit again. Most of it is down to lack of self discipline and unwillingness to knuckle down to the task at hand.
Since the beginning of January however, I have been working to a set of weekly targets (weight & body fat loss) that are set in the contract. Failure to achieve these may result in extensions of my time between orgasms - currently set to ten days as a minimum. The results, so far, are encouraging!
Unfortunately, I missed the weight loss target this week, so I think my next orgasm is going to be put back a bit.
Friday 21 January 2011
Introductions
Hi all,
As my first blog (on this subject or any other), I guess some introductions and maybe a bit of an explanation are in order!
So, I drifted into male chastity during the summer of 2010. It started with me trawling the web and finding Sarah Jameson's most excellent website malechastityblog.com. I found the male chastity thing a serious turn on (which parts of it and why will be covered in a later blog).
Anyway, I raised the subject with my wife, showing her a CB6000 and some of the info from the web. Frankly, she wasn't that interested and then that was it.
About a month later the subject came up again and she asked after the CB6000 and if I was going to go ahead and buy it. I did.
I've been wearing it pretty much ever since, apart from a month or so in late 2010 when events beyond ourr control were doing their best to screw things up.
Just before Christmas the subject of presents came up. We talked around it and one of the options that came up was a metal chastity device. I'm not sure who brought it up. So, an order was placed and we are awaiting delivery - any day now, I think.
More to follow....
As my first blog (on this subject or any other), I guess some introductions and maybe a bit of an explanation are in order!
So, I drifted into male chastity during the summer of 2010. It started with me trawling the web and finding Sarah Jameson's most excellent website malechastityblog.com. I found the male chastity thing a serious turn on (which parts of it and why will be covered in a later blog).
Anyway, I raised the subject with my wife, showing her a CB6000 and some of the info from the web. Frankly, she wasn't that interested and then that was it.
About a month later the subject came up again and she asked after the CB6000 and if I was going to go ahead and buy it. I did.
I've been wearing it pretty much ever since, apart from a month or so in late 2010 when events beyond ourr control were doing their best to screw things up.
Just before Christmas the subject of presents came up. We talked around it and one of the options that came up was a metal chastity device. I'm not sure who brought it up. So, an order was placed and we are awaiting delivery - any day now, I think.
More to follow....
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)