Lifestyle labelling

I started writing this blog entry some time ago, but it's still relevant.

Before I started dabbling in male chastity and all that good stuff I had read a lot of stuff about it on the web. Some of it was good/bad/scary/lies/truth/patheric/unbelievable/tragic/funny (delete as applicable).

Without a shadow of a doubt the best source of information was Sarah Jameson's website http://www.malechastityblog.com/ and her book 'Be Careful What you Wish For.'

However, the really entertaining stuff was to be found in places like in the DreamLover website http://www.dreamloverlabs.com/index.php or the FemDom Forum http://femdomforum.com/forum/content.php where you moved from male chastity as a bit of fun to something a bit more off-the-wall and challenging.

I say off-the-wall because as much as the thought of being thoroughly dominated, used and abused by some 6 ft tall glamazon with a penchant for sexual gratification through somebody else's degradation as a lifestyle is a turn on, outside of fantasy land, I just can't see it working terribly well for me.

And anyway, how f**ked up do you have to be to fit a remote controlled electric shock device to some bloke's dick as a 'lifestyle choice'?

And how do you earn a crust when you're supposed to be strapped to the stocks while her and her friends take turns buggering you with an array of increasingly large strap-ons?

The reason I mention this stuff is because there really do seem to be some very confused people out there. Confused as in they automatically think that if you enjoy MC then you must enjoy FemDom. And confused because they seem to think (in a positive or negative manner) that FemDom MUST mean the man being a complete wuss who has his dick locked up almost permanently, hands all decision making, financial responsibility etc to his wife (Mistress?) and her being some sort of vicious bitch.

Now this might work for some people, but I really do have my doubts. The only blog I've seen which seems to be believable is by Celtic Queen, although she seems to have stopped blogging of late (which is a shame).

On a different not, after some time away from chastity ( at least six months) I am now back in my cage. My wife is my keyholder. I think I am probably keener than she is, certainly I am interested in a wider array of kinks, but she seems to be warming up to the idea. Certainly, she's happy to keep me locked up & denied (as I have been since the start of the month).